Real Men Don't Apologize...Right?

Growing up, what boy didn't idolize John Wayne? He was the super western hero that walked with a swagger, communicated with authority, and always got his man! I think many of us grew up in that 1970's era trying to be the man he was. One of his famous quotes was "Never apologize, mister, it’s a sign of weakness.” Although he did seem to always get the bad guys, I think The Duke missed it on this one.
Whether it's at the office or at home, the apology is probably one sign of truly being a man. Apologizing does demonstrate weakness, but, we are imperfect...right? Of course we are. I believe offering sincere apologies is somewhat like building bridges across the great chasms of relational controversy. It doesn't have to be just within marriage, I think it also applies to the workplace. Imagine an office with less controversy. I like that idea, don't you?
Last April, I enjoyed a trip to Israel with Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The Five Love Languages, and the co-author of The Five Languages of Apology, along with the co-author Dr. Jennifer Thomas. Their company on this trip to the Holy Lands was inspirational as well as relational building.

Recently, I had the opportunity to talk with Dr. Gary Chapman about this new book. I hope you enjoy it.

Apologies.....Maybe if ole John Wayne would have read this book, he might have changed his thoughts ....I think the reality is "Men are Real....When they Apologize!

Kyle